Odyssey 19.329–331
Penelope to the disguised Odysseus
ὃς μὲν ἀπηνὴς αὐτὸς ἔῃ καὶ ἀπηνέα εἰδῇ,
τῷ δὲ καταρῶνται πάντες βροτοὶ ἄλγεʼ ὀπίσσω
ζωῷ, ἀτὰρ τεθνεῶτί γʼ ἐφεψιόωνται ἅπαντες·
When a man is harsh and his deeds are harsh,
all mortals pray down suffering on him while he lives,
and when he is dead they all make mock of him.